The Phone Calls Day

I hardly slept.. was about to sleep when i received a call from my fren, RR asking for my cousin’s phone number.. Without thinking, i told her.. After hanging up, then my brains started to think.. hmm its 3 in the morning and why on earth does she want her number? i asked RR and her response was, wait i will let you know shortly.. DAMN!! ppl curious la.. so i called my cousin.. poor girl was sleeping and i discovered her brother wasn’t back yet from Maison.. Teenagers nowadays, he is only 19..

Then i kept calling RR and finally she told me, my cousin bro was pissed drunk and passed out in the car.. They have reached his flats so send him home but he couldn’t wake up.. They pinched and slapped him.. When he finally woke up, 2 guys decided to follow and walk him up.. When he reached his house door, he was fumbling with the door.. His friends looked around, and asked him ‘Wei, ur house got Lord Ganesh’s photo ah?’ then they got the incense scent and asked him since when his house those.. then looked up and realised they were at the WRONG HOUSE! and my cousin actually broke the Indian family’s house lock while trying to get it open!

When he finally came home, he was damn lucky that his dad, who was wide awake and watching MU game (Boo!) din notice that he was pissed drunk.. Entered the room and straight slept.. RR called me to ask if everything was ok then she told me what exactly happened..

1st Call: RR filled me in with the details. My cousin joined her table around midnight. By that time he was drunk as, if im not mistaken, he has been there since 9-ish? RR saw his condition and he din know what was happening around him. So she took him out and made him vomit. My cousin bro is not a drinker, his father is. His young, irresponsible, useless friends was protesting with RR and I tell you, don’t mess with her, she shouted at them and took my cousin home. At least one responsible person.

2nd Call: Cousin sis called to tell me everything was okaay. She said how disappointed she was with him. She is shocked tat he drank without having any self control. She was worried what her dad would do if he found out that he was drunk. Apparently there has been some changes in his attitude.

I had to cut the 2nd call after 15mins because it was almost 5 and i was getting a migraine and i think my cousin sis should sleep since she is working in the morning. I slept and woke up pretty late. I received a msg from dad, wishing me Happy New Year.. Cheh, 2 weeks plus you don’t bother calling or msging me and now suddenly you doing drama?!  No thanks.. After i showered, Cousin sis called again.

3rd Call: She filled me with details of the previous night. How in the morning he was arguing with her claiming that he knew exactly wat was going on. After 15mins, then she had to go for lunch.

4th Call: RR called and we spoke for 20 mins, about previous night and got the full details.

5th Call: Cousin bro called apologising and he swears he wont repeat it again.

6th Call: Bf called in the morning but i din tell him much that time. Then i told him what happened and all..

7th Call: …

I am tired d.. More i typed, i realised i am gossip queen. GOSH!! Anyway, i was on the phone a lot today!! My ear aches..

Anyway my aunt pissed me off today. I hate it when someone bugs my life. Stop trying to interfere and spoil things for me, bitch.

I burnt my face..

Yes, I thought i will do some skin tightening thing, so i thought i will burn my skin by pouring some hot oil on my face.. (if u believed that, boo yah!) I was frying chicken and as i was about to turn the chicken the other side, when the hot oil splashed right onto my face..

Exhibit A

Exhibit B

I pray it wont be a permanent mark.. I am cool about it, but people around me are the ones that make me nervous.. I know its a burn mark on my face, i can feel it.. Its even painful to smile, or laugh or even cough.. Its freaking tight.. I don’t appreciate the stares.. Thank you.

Hope it goes off by Monday.. You see its my New Year.. I hope to be able to smile properly on that day..

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Overheard this conversation at Jamek Lrt Station between 2 boys and a girl, all three from a nearby secondary school and drench wet (It was raining)..

Boy 1: Kau tengok die punya, besar tak?

Girl: *Looks over at boy 2, with a very cheeky smile, waiting for his answer*

Boy 2: Aku tengok, kecik je *laughs*

Girl: *Girl pretends to kick boy 2 while she smiles*

When i was going to school, no one dared to make such comments as i would whooped their ass.. Well, girls nowadays..

Change of blog name

Yes,, from It wasn’t me I changed it to Boo-yah!! Just felt like changing.. I don’t I need a reason.. Not that the contents have changed.. Still my nonsense.. Haha..

WHY HAVEN’T I UPDATED IN AWHILE?

Just plain lazy..

UPDATE: MY WEIGHT LOSS PROGRAM

I did lose some.. but gained all back during Chinese New Year.. Haha.. I celebrated in Penang and what to do, food there is just so good.. Nothing like KL.. Anyway, i am happy

My weight loss program..

Uncle said I look like a sumo wrestler now..

Aunt said I need to lose few more kilos coz my ass is huge..

When i meet people, “Hey! u gained weight!” *silence* *as they see my face turning purple* “Oh u look better now”

Yaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa Rite. I wasn’t born yesterday.

TATS IT!!!!!!!!!!!!

I must lose weight. I have to. No choice. So here’s my plan:

What to eat:

• Fruits
• Vegetables
• Non-oily food
• Almonds
• Non fat Yogurt

What not to eat:

• Rice
• Fried food
• Meat – Maybe once a week
• Chocolates
• Anything to do with sugar
• Chips

What to do:

• Exercise!!
• Watch what i eat
• Have some discipline
• Eat healthily

Starting date: 16th January, 2008

How much i want to rid off: 2 Kgs

Current weight: 64.5 kgs

Targeted date: 31st January, 2008 (Short term target)

Now we wait and watch if i do succeed

YO!!

Wow.. the last i blogged was almost 3 months back.. amazing.. life was hectic.. Anyway, as we welcome 2008, we reflect on 2007..

The year that was ..

The Good

• Dad’s wife left Malaysia in January along with her kids. Dad followed suit in October. Thank God.
• I got bonus in July but i think i deserve more for the hard work i put in.
• After so much of training, we won the Inter firm Netball competition and became overall champions.
• I switched jobs, although in the same firm but different department.
• I quit my job on the 27th of December, 2007 and become jobless.
• I found out of people’s true colours and learned who are my true friends and who are not.
• My luv for my bf grew stronger
• I became an aunt on 8th October 2007 to a cute little baby boy.
• Got Estee Lauder makeup set.

The Bad

• Broke family ties with my uncles and aunt from my deceased mother’s side.
• I am jobless.
• Realised that no matter what i do for this family, i am always the bad one.
• Realised i am all alone. And no one can be trusted.
• I have gained massive amount of fat.
• I did not pass any of my papers as i had difficulty attending class.
• My health deteriorated.

So 2007 over, Hola 2008.. What do i want/expect from this year?

The year to come..

• LOSE WEIGHT

I gained a bit too much in the past one year. I want to lose the right way, by exercising and eating right. It’s gonna take some time but i am willing. Must tone up my body. Me don’t like flabby.

• GET A JOB

At the moment, a part time job will do. A permanent job i hope to secure one by the end of the year. I plan to do something different, work in commercial line. Lets see la.

• COMPLETE MY EDUCATION

Its been long overdue. I should have done it long time ago instead of working. While working, i was suppose to study part time. The company said they encouraged ppl to pursue their studies.BS. Anyway for better pay and future, i HAVE to finish my education. Thats the main reason i quit my job, so no failing this year. Must finish.

• AVOID SOME PPL

Especially those who are just making use of me and take me for granted, well, this year and years to come, i will be ignoring you. Won’t reply your calls or messages. You don’t deserve a friend like me. And most of all, i don’t need ppl like you.

• OTHER STUFF:

-Learn a new language. Its important.
-Take my health issues more seriously.
-Take time to pray and remember God.
-Enjoy my life
-Go for a holiday.

So good luck to me and hope i achieve some goals that i have set for myself

«By end of January: Lose enough of weight to fit into my jeans.»

Happy New Year to all.

Knocked Up

Ratings : 3 out of 10

A story about how one mistake you make and what happens if you don’t have protected sex.

A bit dull movie. I dunno how i survived.. A bit draggy.. Something i won’t watch again.

I hardly concentrated. But what i remember is, they showed how her baby grew inside of her and the ordeals she had to face. The man who got her pregnant in the first place, transform from a loser to some one with future and is more serious..

Moral of the story : ALWAYS USE A CONDOM.

Eyes Shut Tight

I assumed that if dad were to leave me alone, i would have sleepless night coz i will be alone.. It always happens especially if dad has to go overseas for work.. HOW WRONG I WAS! I HAVE NEVER SLEPT BETTER!! Its amazing.. i go into a deep sleep and wake up quite fresh.. Just feel so great to finally get my sleep back.. but i guess i wasn’t sleeping well all these while was due to work.. Since i quit, i sleep well.. extremely well… sleep is very important in life..Some need to sleep for 8 hrs and some 4hrs would do.. depends on individuals.. How many hours i need, i don’t quite care.. i juat want the rest..

I get home from work, after a busy day, i just feel so sleepy that my body just shuts down. I am not very alert of my surroundings (that can be quite scary) but i just sleep through out the nite, with no dreams/nightmares at all.. Its amazing.. I have been yearning for a sleep like this.. i finally got it.. Thank you god.. Hope i get to go into deep sleeps every nite.

Freaks & Geeks

I saw an episode of Fear Factor on AXN on Monday, titled Freaks vs Geeks. 4 couples, 2 couples of freaks and 2 couples of geeks. Freaks because they were filled with tattoos and piercings (one of the female had her tongue split), weird hair do and colour, and ya, implants (not the usual kind). Geeks were like, thick glasses, makeup-less,  out of shape body and buttoned clothes..

Fear factor, all this while has been displaying guys with perfect physique and gals with huge implants and flat tummies, u know the ‘perfect’ physique.. makes ppl drool and feel ugly about themselves.. They portray, these ppl as ‘normal’.. Look around us, how many have six packs? and big boobs? And you call this ppl normal?

Whats so freaky about ppl with piercings and tattoos? They are human after all, and its their choice how they wanna decorate themselves. Its their freedom but just because they don’t think or behave like you, doesn’t make them freaks. Same goes for the geeks. So what if they spend most of their time in front of the computer and reading? is it bad? Ppl have fun the way they think is like and brings them happiness.. Like me, i prefer sitting at home surfing the net and watching downloaded movies/series.. So i don’t drink or go clubbing, am i a geek? or a freak to some?

But why do we judge ppl, for the way they are? They are happy with themselves, why do we seclude them? We are after all human. As i watched the Fear Factor, the freaks n geeks were not the bitching, degrading, show offs kind of attitude that we have seen so far on the show, but instead they were quite silent.. the geeks was analyzing everything and using science to help them win while the freaks just played the game with confidence. Victory belonged to the geeks, who used ‘deceptive strides’ to win Kinda cute.. one of the geek participants was in triathlon.. Not bad eh?

Dear Dad,,

I remember it was only last month you said you were gonna leave.. and today, the date has finally arrived. Your initial date of departure was on the 5th of October (today) but you brought it forward to 3rd October. We knew that one day you had to leave the country, after all your family is there, waiting for you.

 

I desperately feel like being selfish.. Why do you have to go? Why cant you just stay here? Whats so great over there? ARGH!! but i cant be selfish. You did not teach me that. So here I am saying. Dad go, Stay there. No. Please don’t. Just come back here. i am here. I will cook, clean, do the laundry and the dishes, I will even start to pray again.. But just come back.. You don’t have to be there for long..

 

I don’t see any picture of you carrying me as a baby, but i knew why. You were the only who knew how to use the camera and take good pictures. You were always behind the scenes. Then in my childhood, I only remembering you working.. work.work.work. But you were doing what a man suppose to do, make sure that theres food on the table for all of us to eat. A true man. A disciplinarian. An intelligent man. Very wise. Thats my dad.

My memory of dad came right after the divorce. He took care of me. Of all my needs. He was great. We bonded, and now i just cant imagine him my life without him. I miss his sarcasm, his joke, his anger, the look he gives when he gets irritated,,, Dad i miss you.

I know you said you will return for my wedding if the requirements are met, but i hope you wont wait for that long.. its approximately 10 yrs! please come back soon, your grandson waits for you.

From your daughter.

Grandpa died when you were only 3, and have been doing the household chores and never had break since. Maybe over there you will finally get to rest and relax after working so hard dad.

Fast n Hectic

Amazing weekend.. I thought i will be home, spending some quality time with dad but he too was busy, trying to settle all his last minute stuff..

 

SATURDAY

Woke up surprisingly early (at 8am), despite sleeping at 4 am.. was fresh though.. Dad’s friend was coming over because he had to hand her some stuff but i lazed around until 9.30am, which left me 10 mins to wash the toilet, loosen my bowels n shower.. I din get to wash the toilet but did the rest and was out just as the lady walked in.. Haha.. Had breakfast while dad talked to her.. Then dad had to meet some1 at KLCC around 11.30am (The lady is coming all the way from Ipoh to bid farewell to dad) and i wanted to follow.. But sis in law wanted to go out too so she asked me to wait for her, while dad left first. .

As she came, we drove to KLCC.. We went to the 2 bucks toilet and I happily used the body lotion, White Musk perfume, Leave in Conditioner, Facial Spray all sponsored by Body Shop (me like!!) I paid 2 bucks, so i better use it.. Then we walked out of the toilet, just out front, they were selling Estee Lauder’s latest perfume Pleasure Delight.. I really really liked the scene.. The model for that perfume is Gywneth Paltrow.. SIL stopped to look at it (Not my kind of thing, I normally just walk off), and she became really interested! I was shocked! They were selling a make up set by Estee Lauder for RM 218 with every purchase of RM180.. after a lot of queires done by my SIL, she decided to buy the perfume worth RM300 and get the makeup set for RM218 and apart from that she gets a free make over! She was getting it for me, using the excuse that she hasn’t gotten for me a birthday gift yet and my birthday was 3 months back. I tried talking her out of it, but she refuses to listen and she bought it! In a way, good for me, but at the same time, i don’t enjoy ppl spending that much money on me.. Its just not nice.. Anyway, the makeup set is FANTASTIC, nice colours and its very suitable for beginners (although i think i am not one!) Its a very complete set, which i think every gal above the age 18 should have.. It has some touch of elegance in it (The colour of the set and the bag is gold) and very classy.. Estee Lauder makeup is good andl long lasting too.. OK! enough of promoting.. So SIL’s makeover was at 2pm and we had about 1 hour and 15mins to kill..

My main purpose of going to KLCC was i wanted to get my Hotlink sim card (My bf uses it but its registered under my name, so i had to get it coz he lost it!).. I lost my sense of direction, and walked towards the wrong end and then had to walk back.. its no problem for me, but my SIL is 8mths pregnant with my nephew, i feel really guilty for making her walk so much.. So the maxis Service Centre was crowded.. I found her a place to sit while i go get my sim card.. Once done, she said she was hungry so took her to burger king and she wasn’t sure what to order, so i suggested my favourite, Grilled Chicken. She enjoyed it very much, while i had Tender Chicken (it’s nuggets, and its taste better than Mc D’s nuggets) as dad had cooked lunch for us at home.. Din wanna disappoint the old man.. After lunch, we went to Chameleon, a place to buy hair accessories.. Again, i walked the opposite direction and had to walk back to the other end again.. There bought some hair clips for some1 not worth mentioning of here. Oh ya, i met a long lost friend, Corrina.. she lost hell of a lot of weight.. too skinny.. She is a sweet little thing .. and then the time has finally come, 2pm..

So my SIL sat in the chair and her makeover begun.. She is quite a beauty and she has an amazing smile (Bro fell in luv with her because of it) but she has lot of acne scaring.. when she was young, she decided to do some surgery on her face using her bare hands without any consultation and this has resulted in pot holes all over her face.. Not every1 is blessed with great skin, and a mum as a beautician (i have/had both, lucky me).. So the makeup artist had to cover up the marks, making it less visible with tons of foundation.. she had to blend 2 colours together.. i also discovered, my SIL does not use moisturizer on the days she don’t work… ARGH!! you must use it everyday! Do not apply makeup without putting on moisturizer first! The artist lectured her a little bit, so did i.. then as she continued applying makeup, i noticed she applied 6 different colours of eyeshadow and blended it well.. the outcome was good.. SIL did look good.. she topped it off with pink blusher and some lip gloss.. and then the photo shoot (its in the package, she gets an A4 size photogragh). Thats where she messed up.. She looked very fierce and she became self conscious as passerby were looking at her and she wasn’t dressed well (she wore a T shirt only).. So her smile looked really fake, and she looked fierce,, she was disappointed with the pictures but she had to pick one.. and she did, and the guy did the touch up and printed it, and we had the picture.. After that, we headed home..

At home, we had lunch but the rice wasn’t enough for the 2 of us and we asked my bro who was on the way over to buy some.. cousins and aunt from Klang came to visit dad.. I unintentionally offended my aunt.. I was just stating facts.. She is in Klang, and since my dad is leaving, she said she will drop by once in awhile to check on me.. WHY?! WAT FOR?! am i a child? i am 23 for gods sake.. I told her don’t trouble urself pls, i will be fine.. Don’t have to come.. She got offended, saying that this is how one shows their luv, and i was making it clear that i dont luv her by objecting to her visit.. wtf.. That wasn’t my intention.. But since i inherited my dad smart answers skill (i think), I turned around and told her, If i ever move out if this family home, and out there on my own, will you actually come an visit me? the answer was a simple No.. i saw dad smiling.. Aunt went into defense and said, yes i will, its just that i dont have transport on my own.. Ya ya.. Bro turned around and said, Ya, you have visited me 4 times since i moved out.. that was enough to silent her… thanks bro, for ur sarcasm and saving me.. I did not intend to be mean, but pls, respect my privacy and freedom.. ya its a bad world out there, but i know i can survive.. thanks for the concern but no thanks..

After chatting a while more, they left.. left the four of us, Bro, SIL, Dad and me.. Bro and SIL was suppose to go home but SIL was feeling lazy so they decided to stay over.. They actually brought a set of clothes to wear.. So lucky them, after a nice warm shower (their water heater at home is currently spoilt) my SIL ate and slept while bro lazed around longer.. Poor guy is having fever.. So we thought we would watch some TV, but nothing good was on Astro and i din have any DVDs to watch either so we just end up jogging thru channels and then it was 10pm, and i watched the Arsenal game.. Bro is not a fan of football, so he was blur and making stupid comments and at the 18th min of the game, he knocked out.. He was snoring like a pig! by that time, basically every1 is asleep.. and i was dozing off too… Then bro woke up and made a comment as though he had been watching the game, he thought i din realise he had slept until i told him.. So he went off to bed, and i waited for half time before retiring to bed as well…

 

SUNDAY

Was woken up by SIL asking if i wanted to join her n bro for breakfast.. Dad said go have fun.. He went out as he had stuff to do and told me he would only be back at 5pm.. So i joined the couple.. Their good frens or ‘gang’ was suppose to join us, but one of the members send out a prank sms canceling the breakfast so it was just the 3 of us.. I had Nasi Lemak with warm milo.. was good although i am not suppose to be eating spicy food because of my stomach ulcers.. who cares?

After our food, one of bro’s fren called, and upon realising that the sms was a prank, they decided to join us for breakfast.. The couple and a 4 month old baby.. When the baby was born, he was really tiny.. I was very scared to hold him.. he was very under weight.. now he looks so much better, more healthy.. bro carried and played with him and then my turn.. the moment i picked him up, he threw up on me.. Great way to start a frenship with me rite buddy? anyway,, i din mind,, it wasn’t a lot and wasn’t smelly like adults’ puke.. So i played with him but that fella, kena hiccups and then he felt sleepy and he got cranky.. he moved a lot.. so then they put him to sleep.. Wat i liked was, when they made him lie down in the basket (i dunno wat u call that thing you put the child, its nt a trolley but its a basket la.. ) he was moving around a lot.. like he was boxing with his eyes closed, but the moment his mum put her hand on his chest, he calmed down! he stopped moving and he slept off! He felt serenity… Gods grace, a beautiful creation…

After breakfast, the mums wanted to gte something so they stopped at MegaSavers shop.. and couldn’t find the things they wanted.. So the ladies planned to go to Jusco.. My SIL dropped my bro of at my place here so that he can take his bike and go home because he wasn’t feeling well,,, He saw the doctor and took medication and once he was in his own house, he slept off.. After dropping bro off, SIL felt bloated and was in slight pain so she asked me if i could drive… WELL,,,,,,, I have never driven an automatic car before… i always drive a manual so this was something new to me.. My first time driving an automatic, a Chevrolet Aveo 1.6.. oh my god.. But i did it, its obviously easy, just that i was not used to it and its not my car.. Driving and parking was so easy.. Jaya Jusco was packed..

We parked on the roof top and we stopped first at the baby’s section where, my SIL bought some more mittens and booties and 2 sets of pajamas for her baby boy.. Paying was a hassle as the queue was freaking long.. but lucky, kids department it was moving fast.. Then we went to the ladies section.. SIL wanted to buy working pants that will last her for a month and din want an expensive one.. She believes she wont put on much weight after delivery and will lose all that fat but reality is, you need to exercise which at times she can get quite lazy and she got Punjabi blood, so after one kid, definitely will bloat.. but anyhow, good luck to her.. so she got one working pants, and 2 pants to wear in the house during her confinement.. She also wanted nursing bra and she got 2 of those while i bought 2 panties so that the bill will come to RM100.. RM100 because we could get a lucky draw and win vouchers..By this time, SIL’s fren came minus husband and baby and she too went for shopping.. So we went to the payment counter and nearly got a heart attack as the queue was very very long! SIL stood for awhile while i went to get some stokings as the one i had tore.. Then i took over,, and after more than 30 mins came our turn.. There were few other counters but they were closed.. I mean, u know sales always more on weekends, cant they open the cashier counters?! and because of all the long wait to pay, we forgot complete about the vouchers until much later in the evening..

We then headed to the Jusco Supermarket to buy Huggies newborn baby diapers but it was not available so end up buying a smaller packet of a different brand.. Then, the ladies wanted to buy a plastic cupboard or drawer like to keep the baby’s toiletries.. To decide on the size of the box, took them so long and finally when they decided on what to buy, another journey to payment as the queue was long.. SIL also bought 4 jars, to put in Milo, Coffee, Sugar and Milk.. it was nice, air tight ones which i thought was pricey and unnecessary but its not my call.. Then stopped at KFC to have lunch.. the others had snack plates while i had only mashed potatoes.. KFC most of the time, give me an upset tummy.. and also, i had food at home.. After lunch, the ladies talked while i listened.. About the company trip to Phuket and tiger shows (i got grossed out), of another member of the gang and the usual ladies gossips.. After that, we headed home…

SIL went back to her own house and dropped me home.. I came home, it was at 4pm, dad wasn’t home so i decided to sleep.. I woke up at about 6pm and dad was cooking a dish, for SIL, so that she takes it and has more energy after pregnancy.. It can alst a few years, as long as it is kept in a air tight tupperware.. So i helped dad, and while making it, the aunty i had disown came over for a visit.. She completely ignored, thankfully, coz i was dying to give her a piece of my mind… hmm should have just done that.. damn it.. Anyway, i did all the cleaning part and there was oil everywhere… After cleaning, bro dropped by again, to collect the dish and to take a shower.. He also asked me to burn for him few movies but somehow my laptop couldn’t read it.. He left, me and dad had dinner,, dad went to pray and after praying, watched a little TV and was off to bed.. as for me, i have been online… dad washed his hair, and asked me to check his scalp for dandruff or redness.. it was my pleasure.. he too likes to be pampered.. so i tried to massage his head, which he looked as though he enjoyed it.. Anyway, it will be my last time doing it..

 

Tomorrow, I have work.. but i am feeling really lazy… will think of something.. hmmmm

 

P/s: Someone actually asked me on Saturday if i was going out at night, as in clubbing? I was assume as someone without a life, but i think i loads of fun without having to get wasted